
Catch up dinner with Peter & Anita @ Habib's in Bankstown.
Pete is a hard working dentist (looks young doesn't he!), and i met him at a rave in 2004? I think it was Godspeed. Those were the good old days!! He's busy man working 6 days a week. But he enjoys what he does so that's all that really matters, but you do need a break otherwise you'll feel run down tired. I feel like that sometimes and i work 5 days a week doing admin/accounts lol.
Anita just got a new job at a large law firm so Congrats girl! We met on livejournal, and realised we lived just 4 streets away from each other lol. Since then we've been buddies, and our birth date's are one day apart!!
I believe it's hard to balance all the thing's in life. E.g friend's, family, boyfriend, yourself, work & play. It's always one thing that dominates, and some thing is left behind.
But i try to balance all these things as much as i can. Catching up with friends is probably the least that i do out of everything, but that's normal isn't it ?? Well, if you have a boyfriend that is..
On the weekend i was part of a discussion about - friends who don't put as much effort into a friendship as you do. Now, my answer to this was 'if someone isn't putting in the effort, then why should you?' If you are constantly calling out your friend, ringing them to chat, keeping in touch, but they don't do the same - then it's obvious who values the friendship more.
And the guy said ' yeah that's true.. but i'm a single guy. When you're single you grab every opportunity to go out with anyone, otherwise you're on your own that night. Where as if you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, you don't need to because you have each other to hang out with.
This made sense to me. I guess i won't understand it from his point of view because i've never been single long enough to feel that way.
I have a friend, she was my bestfriend in highschool. After we graduated, i kept in contact with her kind of. Each birthday i'd take her out for a meal, and i'd ring her now & then for a chat to see how she's going. 6 years on, i realised that i was the only one making the effort to keep in touch..
I'm going to drop her from my life, even though i only see her once a year, i give up on putting in all the effort.
Friend's come and go in your life. BUt true friends stick with you for life.